Multitasking and Short-term Memory Loss

Studies have linked chronic, high stress multitasking under intense pressure to short term memory loss. Multitasking actually makes a person more inefficient because it reduces the brain power needed to perform each task.
-Deborah Smith Pegues-

I got this quote from a friend and it seems really true in my life. You see, I love to multi-task up to the point of feeling nauseated because of too much stress. While it does not make me feel good, the result of multitasking, which is accomplishing many things in a short span of time, gives me a sigh of relief.

However, it does affect me really bad. Sometimes, I breeze and hurry through things that when my husband asks me about something I did or said in the past 30 minutes, I could not even remember it. Imagine that! Sigh… I just attribute it to the fact that I had undergone Caesarian Section when I gave birth, but I think that is just one facet and most of my short-term memory loss is really because of stress and multitasking.

Really, I should really slow down a bit, de-clutter my life, and give more time for rest. My concern now is how to increase my income level so that I will not have to work so much to earn the same or to even earn more money?

Jewelry as Reward for Working Hard

Jade Jewelry set

Jade jewelry set

Sometimes, I feel like I work too hard and there is really no compensation for myself. Most of my income goes to tithes and offerings first, then the rest are for my family. Little do I have a “me” budget.

Although I do get a massage from time to time, it is really more of a need because I have a backache or a headache. It is not really for pampering.

But for the month of February, I thought of rewarding myself for my efforts with a jewelry set. These are expensive but I found a way to get it for less without sacrificing my desire to have some new pieces.

First, I bough some loose jade beads. Then I collected some scrap gold from my jewelry box. Then I went to a trusty guy who also made our weddings rings and had him fashion something for me. Actually, I had an initial design but he made some alterations. And I love it. The settings are made of 14K gold. I wanted to have a bracelet but that is beyond my budget already.

I am just so happy that I did this and I would like to have something done again for my birthday in July. Maybe a ruby ring, perhaps? It had always been my dream to have one. So hopefully, this year, it will happen. :D Ciao.

Doing Everything While Involving God

A lot of us do not really think of God as someone who wants to take part in our everyday affairs. While we may be Christians who believe in God and the Bible, we sometimes just limit His involvement in our lives, thinking that He is too big a God to care for everything about us.

I am reminded with this when a friend of mine, Cathy, a pastor’s wife, sent me the following encouraging text message:

“If you’re worried, tell God.
If you can’t remember, ask God.
Try to get in the habit of telling
everything to God first.
After all, He knows what’s best for you.
Prayer is always the best way.
And God is always the best friend we
can talk to in times we can’t tell
anybody about anything.”

I think this is lovely, a perfect message of love on Valentines Day.

Happy Valentines Day everyone!